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What does clear, stretchy and jelly-like vaginal discharge mean?

Posted 25 July 2019 under Ask Us.

Typically, clear, stretchy and jelly-like vaginal discharge that has the consistency of egg whites, means that you are making a lot of estrogen. This type of discharge often occurs in … read more

I need to drink more water, but even a glass makes me so nauseous. I can only drink cold sodas and juices without feeling sick. How can I drink water without feeling queasy?

Posted 22 July 2019 under Ask Us.

There a couple reasons why you may be feeling nauseous after drinking water. If you only drink after eating a meal, you may experience some nausea because you may be … read more

What do I do if I accidentally cut myself while shaving?

Posted 17 July 2019 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question! If you accidentally cut yourself while shaving your legs or underarms, clean the area with warm soapy water, and pat dry. You can also apply a … read more

What causes your period to be late if you are a virgin?

Posted 9 July 2019 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question. Your period can be irregular for a lot of different reasons (besides pregnancy) such as stress, exercising, gaining or losing weight, being sick, taking certain medications, or … read more

Is it okay for white women to wear cornrows? I did them myself and mean no disrespect as an activist for equality, regardless of race, gender, sexuality, or religion. I have heard it is a fashion statement to wear my hair like this, is it true?

Posted 2 July 2019 under Ask Us.

Thank you for your question! All individuals have the right to wear their hair any way they wish; however, it’s good to know about some of the controversy that is … read more

I think I have a yeast infection, however the thought of telling my mom, or seeing a doctor makes me very uncomfortable. I do want the problem solved though. What should I do?

Posted 27 June 2019 under Ask Us.

Thank you for your question. At first it may feel awkward to talk to you mom or doctor about your symptoms; however, it’s important to know that taking care of … read more

I have a lump on my vulva during my period. What is it?

Posted 20 June 2019 under Ask Us.

Thank you for your question. Unfortunately, it’s difficult to know what your lump is or the cause without seeing it. Most of the time, there is no need for concern; … read more

Is it okay to clean my vulva using soap and warm water?

Posted 19 June 2019 under Ask Us.

Thanks for your question! The answer is Yes! When showering or bathing, wash your vulva with warm water and mild or unscented soap. Separate your labia and let the warm … read more

My boyfriend asked if I wanted to try something new during sex and I said no. Even though I continued to say no he wouldn’t stop. Afterwards, he apologized and begged me to forgive him and said that he just got “caught up in the moment but it keeps happening.” I’m really at a loss here because I have severe PTSD and have been molested as a child and he knows this yet he’s repeatedly gone against my wishes. What should I do?

Posted 6 June 2019 under Ask Us.

Thank you for your question. We’re glad that you reached out to us. What your boyfriend is doing is absolutely NOT okay. It sounds like you’ve done a great job … read more

I got fingered and afterwards there was a lot of blood. I later realized there is a cut inside my vagina. It burns when I pee and I’m too scared to talk to an adult. How do I make it heal faster?

Posted 4 June 2019 under Ask Us.

Thank you for your question. The cut is likely due to a tear caused by your partner’s fingernail. This type of injury is common with sexual activity such as with … read more