- MRKH is a disorder (from birth) that affects the female reproductive tract.
- Girls are usually diagnosed between the ages of 15-18 when they don’t get a period.
- Treatment options involve dilators, surgery, or a combination of both.
- After treatment, young women with MRKH can have a normal sex life.
You may have just learned that you have MRKH (Mayer Rokitansky Kuster Hauser Syndrome). You’re probably thinking, “Why is the name so long?” It’s extra long because this condition is named after all of the health care providers who discovered it. Aside from being overwhelmed with the name of this condition, it’s also normal to feel confused, scared, and sad about having MRKH. Most likely you and your parents have a lot of questions. We hope that this guide will help answer your concerns. We also have a special guide for your parents.
What is MRKH?
MRKH is a congenital disorder that affects the female reproductive tract. Congenital means that it’s acquired during development and present at birth. About 1 in every 5,000 female babies has this condition. MRKH is a syndrome (group of symptoms). We don’t know the cause of this syndrome, but we do know that when a baby grows in the mother’s uterus (womb), organs and systems develop. One of the systems is called the reproductive system, which includes the uterus, vagina, fallopian tubes, and ovaries. The reproductive system is formed during the first few months of “fetal” life (while a baby is still in her mother’s womb). With MRKH, the reproductive system starts to grow but doesn’t completely develop.
Girls with MRKH have normal ovaries and fallopian tubes. Most often the uterus is absent or tiny. The vagina is typically shorter and narrower than usual or it may be absent. Sometimes, there may be one kidney instead of two. About 3% of girls will have a minor hearing loss and some may have spinal problems such as scoliosis (curvature of the spine).
When is MRKH diagnosed?
The most common age for MRKH to be diagnosed is when a young woman is between 15 and 18 years old. That’s when a young woman is likely to see her health care provider because she hasn’t started her period. Some girls may find out at an earlier age or when they’re older.
What will happen at my health care provider’s appointment?
Your health care provider will probably ask you questions such as: “When did you notice that your body was changing… going through puberty?” Next, he/she may want to take a look at your outer female organs and also check to see how long your vagina is. Your health care provider will gently put a Q-tip or gloved pinky finger at the opening of your vagina and then very slowly and carefully put it into the vagina to see how deep your vagina is. If your health care provider thinks you might have MRKH, he/she will probably order a test called an ultrasound or an MRI (magnetic resonance imaging). These tests do not hurt and are similar to having an x-ray. Usually your health care provider will refer you to a specialist who has experience taking care of young women with MRKH. A pediatric and adolescent gynecologist is a health care provider with special training in young women’s reproductive health.
What can a pelvic ultrasound or MRI show?
A pelvic ultrasound is usually the first test to check to see if a uterus or womb is present. This test can also confirm that you have two ovaries and two kidneys. Sometimes a very tiny uterus can be seen. A tiny uterus is called a “uterine horn or remnant”. You may need to have an MRI so that your health care provider can see your female organs in more detail.
Can anyone tell that I have MRKH?
Some young women wonder if anyone can tell if they have MRKH. The answer is no. No one, except you and your gynecologist can tell that you were born with an incomplete vagina and following treatment, with dilators or surgery, your sexual partner will not be able to feel any difference.
Will I be able to have children?
If you were born with an incomplete vagina but have a normal size uterus, it is likely that you will be able to become pregnant and carry a baby. If you were born without a uterus or if your uterus is tiny, you will not be able to carry a pregnancy. Since your ovaries are normal and make eggs, an egg can be fertilized with your partners’ sperm.
Someone else such as; your sister, friend, or another person you choose, could be the surrogate mother. Surrogate mothers are women who agree to carry a pregnancy for a couple. You and the baby’s father would be the biological parents of this child. Adoption is another choice for some couples. Fertility options are improving every day. By the time you are ready to have children, there may be more options available to you.
Why might I have pelvic (belly) pain each month?
Some women with MRKH may have a tiny uterus called a “uteri or uterine remnant”. The uterus or womb is not big enough to carry a baby but it can cause pelvic pain if blood from this small uterus goes into the belly. Your gynecologist will be able to tell if you have a small uterus and if it needs to be taken out. If you have belly pain, it’s important to tell your medical team.
If I don’t make a vagina but I do decide to have sex, will anything bad happen?
If you have vaginal intercourse before your vagina is created using dilators or surgery, sex will likely be very painful. It could cause a tear in your vagina and bleeding. Making a vagina with sex can be done but comes with risks and is usually very uncomfortable.
Will I ever be able to have a normal and pleasureable sex life?
YES. Keep in mind that every woman, regardless of her age or health issues experiences sexual stimulation and sensitivity in different ways. Discovering what you enjoy sexually is an evolving process throughout your life. Thus, women with MRKH who are sexually active are encouraged to explore their sexuality with themselves and with their partner(s) to learn what feels both comfortable and pleasurable.
I’m in boarding school/college and have a roommate – How do I get some privacy to use the dilators?
Most young women find that they need privacy when using the dilators. When you are sharing a room, either with a sibling or roommate, it can be uncomfortable asking for time alone, especially if you don’t want to share any details of your diagnosis or treatment.
There are many reasons why people need to have some time alone: meditating, studying, napping, praying, etc. It’s always best to plan ahead, so check with your roommate to find out when she will be in class or out of your dorm room so you’ll know when you will have private time to use your dilator.
I’m really embarrassed with all the medical visits – will this ever get easier?
Many young women diagnosed with MRKH feel pushed into a world of new information and new experiences. It’s perfectly normal to have a range of emotions: sadness and anger, hope and worry, fear and embarrassment can all be part of the experience. Your medical team: your gynecologist, nurses, and social worker, are aware of this and they are trained to be sensitive to your unique situation. You may be the kind of person who wants a lot of interaction and information at all the visits or you may be someone who just wants the facts and prefers to keep the visits as brief as possible. One thing that you can do to make this process easier is to tell your medical team what approach would be most comfortable for you during the appointments and exams. The team will do their best to make sure your appointments are as stress-free as possible.
My parents want to keep talking to me about MRKH but I already feel like my privacy has been taken away – how do I keep some boundaries?
An essential part of growing up is becoming more independent as well as setting some boundaries between you and your parents. When there is a medical issue that requires many appointments and exams, it can be hard to feel a sense of privacy. Additionally, since MRKH by definition involves both you and your parents thinking of you as a sexual person, the stress level in families may be very high at first. For many young women and their parents, the conversations you have been having about your body may just feel too private. Just as you have had to get used to this diagnosis and what it all means, so do your parents.
Sometimes this may feel like an invasion of your privacy. Your parents may find it helpful to read the Parent’s Guide to MRKH which answers the most frequently asked questions parents have.
You can also talk with members of your medical team for help with communicating with your parents.
Is there anyone else I can talk to about having MRKH?
Some young women find it helpful to talk with a parent(s), while other girls prefer to talk with a counselor or a close friend. We know that it can be very helpful to talk with someone your own age that has MRKH. The Center for Young Women’s Health at Boston Children’s Hospital offers free monthly online chats for young women with MRKH.
Am I still a biological woman?
It’s not uncommon for young woman to wonder if they are “really a girl” when they first learn that they are born with an incomplete vagina and uterus. If you have asked yourself this question, you are not alone. However, it’s very important for you to understand that you are a female. Your health care provider may order a special blood test that can confirm that you are a genetic female and have 46XX chromosomes.
Will my vagina ever close up?
Once you have created a vagina your vagina shouldn’t change or shrink if you are having vaginal intercourse or using the dilator about once a week. If you are not sexually active, you should use the largest size dilator once a week for about 15-20 minutes (only after you are finished making your vagina).
I don’t want to use the dilators now – can I wait until I feel ready? What happens if I never create a vagina?
The choice to have treatment – how and when – IS UP TO YOU! Like any important decision, it is essential that you get all the information before you make the decision to have treatment. Talking with other women who have MRKH is valuable too. You control your body. You should never be forced or pressured into using dilators by your parents, partner or medical team. Rather, they should support you during the treatment process only when you decide the time is right. Your medical team has the responsibility of giving you information and resources to help you understand your reproductive health issues so YOU can make informed decisions. Your parents have the responsibility of helping you get medical care and helping you obtain privacy at home if/when you begin using dilators. You have the responsibility to learn more about MRKH and to talk with a trusted adult if you are feeling overwhelmed.
If you have been diagnosed with MRKH or you would like an evaluation or second opinion, you may contact the Gynecology Program at Boston Children’s Hospital at: (617) 355-7648.