When a person mentions that they are feeling “horny”, it means that they are excited sexually. Usually, this feeling occurs because that person finds the other to be attractive in some way. In some cases, the person might be signaling that they want to have sex, but not always! Feeling horny is a healthy and normal feeling.
Women usually say that the feeling of being “horny” causes a tingling sensation in their vagina. When a man feels “horny”, the feeling usually causes an erection, which is when blood rushes to the penis causing it to become hard and stick out. It doesn’t matter if you’re a man, woman, or non-binary these feelings are completely normal!
However, since the word “horny” might mean different things to different people, it’s OK to ask what the person means. Here’s a great way to ask, “I know what being horny means, but does this mean you want to have sex?” It’s important to mention, that even if one person says they feel “horny”, it doesn’t mean that the other person feels the same way!
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