I have a boyfriend and it’s been 6 months since we have been dating. We haven’t kissed or had sexual contact. Is he gay?

Handsome young boy flirting with a cute brunette after school

It is possible that your boyfriend may think of you as a friend rather than a girlfriend but there could be other reasons why your boyfriend has not tried to kiss or touch you. Here are a few:

  • It could be his first relationship and he may feel awkward.
  • Some cultures and religions believe that couples should not have sexual contact or even kiss until they are married.
  • Different families have different rules about dating.
  • He may be waiting for you to kiss him first

A healthy relationship is about communication, sharing, respect, and trust. It’s important to feel good about yourself in a relationship. When the time is right, have a conversation with your bf and talk about how you feel about each other.

 


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