Should your parents know you masturbate?

unzipped jeansMasturbation is common among both guys and girls and a normal part of healthy sexual development, and it should always be done privately. Rubbing your genitals can sometimes be irritating, but besides that, masturbation is not physically dangerous. While most teens don’t discuss masturbation with their parents, others may want to initiate a discussion about sexuality and masturbation.


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